THEVOICE | 6 Native culture not for show ow much can I learn and connect with the peoples of Canada simply by watching a performance or purchasing artifacts they produce? The annual Coastal First Nations Dance Festival will quietly celebrate a 10-year partnership with the UBC Museum of Anthropology at the end of this month, while the country marks its 150th anniversary and ponders the recommendations handed down by the Truth and Reconciliation Commission. Anniversary celebrations are already underway. Many of them include First Nations and aboriginal dance, art, and cultural performance. It seems odd that the events that mark Canada’s establish- ment come at a time when the country is also trying to heal. The presentations of a unified history of Canada do not not reflect the ex- periences of many Canadians. People are calling out that history because it does not respect all the peoples who |) J live within it’s bor- \\ Nees _ OPINION ders. Odder still the sense that the RONNIELEE dances, the art LA MADELEINE and the storytell- ing feel more like a grab for tourism than a desire to build inclusive community in Canada. At least, that was how I felt after watch- ing a presentation at a Vancouver City Council meeting on Jan. 24 that out- lined a year of First Nations and aborig- inal events the city has planned for the country’s celebrations. It was partially sponsored by national and provincial “The art and storytelling feel more like a grab for tourism.” tourism boards. My misgivings may also come from a conversation I had last October with Aaron Nelson-Moody, a master carver and instructor at Langara, who is teach- ing the reconciliation carving course. During our conversation, he talked about the goal of carving in his com- munity: to carry a tradition from one generation to the next. “You have to re-carve [the totem] ev- ery generation,” he said. “Its being part of a continuum of carving 'and ceremo- ny that has been going on for 12,000 years here.” If he is right, then learning and un- derstanding is participatory, then the THURSDAY, FEB. 23, 2017 EDITOR BONNIE LEE LA MADELEINE Viewpoints Wanted: real gentlemen hivalry is dead, hopefully. When the provincial government mandates that all B.C. campuses must P educate their stu- dents on what is sexual consent and what is rape, it suggests that something must be going horribly wrong in the way boys and young men learn about empathy, sympa- thy, and physical boundaries. What we can hd OPINION SASHA LAKIC tell from numbers released by Statis- tics Canada is that the assailant in 94 per cent of the sexual assaults reported. in 2014 were male. What’s worse, StatCan found that the number of reported sexual assaults has remained. stable compared to the relative decline in other violent crimes since 2004. The key word here is reported. Men are also victims of sexual assault, but they are much more reluctant to report than even women are, for fear of ridi- cule or disbelief according to StatCan. Despite the reluctance of both men and women to report the true numbers of sexual assault, the troubling lopsid- edness of StatCan’s findings demands that everyone, and men in particular, must re-examine their place in adult relationships. Men look to the socially constructed “gentleman” -— to guide their attitudes and behaviour to- wards women. Chivalrous brutes like James Bond and Dan Bil- zerian come to mind, who, when revis- ited, set normative male standards by manhandling, belittling and objectify- ing most women they encounter. For generations, we have rarely questioned the protector and warrior “[M]en in particular must re-examine their place in adult relationships.” roles that are almost universally ex- pected to be filled by “good men.” Is it a surprise that rape culture continues — to shape the be- haviors of young men today? Although Lan- gara’s new sexual consent policy is taking the male perspective into account in a very exemplary manner, as it does with the rest of the gender spectrum, it is equally important that we teach young males, that growing up means ques- tioning and rooting out the archaic ways of the men before us. CONCEPT: LAUREN BOOTHBY; COMIC: CASS LUCKE Veggie-only love breeds narrow minds eeking out people who already S think like you might help to en- sure a sort of stability in your rela- tionship, but it can also mean depriving yourself of new ideas. For example, Vancouver vegetarians can now find love partners who share their values by participating in veggie speed dating. These veggie dating groups appear to have one goal: to help people find new friends and partners with common limits your social circles. Yet, most peo- ple don’t willingly seek out people who don’t share their values. I was speaking to a vegetarian friend, who is con- sidering veganism, about this new dating trend and about inter-foodie OPINION avid meat-eater. The vegetarian argued that food preferences come from people’s moral position, making it impossible to date someone who has a different phi- losophy. Being a vegan is a statement of identity, and thus plays a big role in their love-choices. Going to such groups or websites just increases the chances of finding someone who shares a compatible moral position. ‘The meat-eater, however, said that ing sites for specific groups limits op- tions, he thinks. He said letting such a small aspect of someone’s lifestyle influ- ence who a person dates is shallow. Limiting your social circle to those who think like you could lead to apathy in the future as you fail to grow and be challenged by the differing opinions of those around you. A person might start thinking that everyone shares his beliefs. Over time this may make it harder to be open to gateway to connecting with all Canadi- | interests. By limiting your exposure to VIOLETTA relationships. We food preferences have nothing to do chance encounters, and that would be a ans starts by entering into each others’ | only people with ideas identical to yours KRYAK were joined by an with someone’s love-life. Going on dat- _ big mistake. 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